swim: cache decoded payload in the Lua module

Users of Lua SWIM module likely will use Lua objects as a
payload. Lua objects are serialized into MessagePack
automatically, and deserialized back on other instances. But
deserialization of 1.2Kb payload on each member:payload()
invocation is quite heavy operation. This commit caches decoded
payloads to return them again until change.

A microbenchmark showed, that cached payload is returned ~100
times faster, than it is decoded each time. Even though a tested
payload was quite small and simple:

    s:set_payload({a = 100, b = 200})

Even this payload is returned 100 times faster, and does not
affect GC.

Part of #3234