box: fix force recovery for transactions with local rows

Force recovery first tries to collect all rows of a transaction into a
single list, and only then applies those rows.

The problem was that it collected rows based on the row replica_id. For
local rows replica_id is set to 0, but actually such rows can be part
of a transaction coming from any instance.

Fix recovery of such rows

Follow-up #8746
Follow-up #7932

NO_DOC=bugfix
NO_CHANGELOG=the broken behaviour couldn't be seen due to bug #8746

(cherry picked from commit 85df1c96)