Allow to set directory for copying DSO before load

Make it possible to set temporary directory where
module will be copied before load.

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Title: Justify module (re-)loading semantics

It is now possible to set directory where temporary
copies of modules to be loaded will be created.
It is done by setting $(TMPDIR) variable. It
will be "/tmp" if variable was not set.

Follow up #4945