replication: do not relay rows coming from a remote instance back to it

We have a mechanism for restoring rows originating from an instance that
suffered a sudden power loss: remote masters resend the isntance's rows
received before a certain point in time, defined by remote master vclock
at the moment of subscribe.
However, this is useful only on initial replication configuraiton, when
an instance has just recovered, so that it can receive what it has
relayed but haven't synced to disk.
In other cases, when an instance is operating normally and master-master
replication is configured, the mechanism described above may lead to
instance re-applying instance's own rows, coming from a master it has just
subscribed to.
To fix the problem do not relay rows coming from a remote instance, if
the instance has already recovered.

Closes #4739