box: check tuple format in before_replace triggers

Currently, we don't check tuple format in before_replace triggers,
that's why some bugs happen if we don't use the triggers correctly.

Let's check tuple format before execution of before_replace triggers
and after each before_replace trigger. The check will be disabled
during recovery for backward compatibility.

Closes #6780

NO_DOC=bug fix

(cherry picked from commit 884b3ff3)