box: add details to DML update/upsert specific errors

Add next UPDATE error payload fields:
- space name
- space id
- index name
- index id
- tuple (tuple value on the moment of update)
- ops (update operations)

Add next UPSERT error payload fields for invalid operations syntax:
- space name
- space id
- ops (upsert operations)

Closes #7223

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