iproto: init coio watcher before join/subscribe

box_process_join() and box_process_subscribe() use coio_write_xrow(),
which calls coio_writev_timeout() under hood. If a socket will block at
write() the function calls ev_io_start() to wake the fiber up when the
socket will be ready to write. This code assumes that the watcher
(struct ev_io) is initialized as coio watcher, i.e. coio_create() has
been called.

The reason why the code works before is that coio_write_xrow() in
box_process_{join,subscribe}() writes a small piece of data and so the
situation when a socket write buffer has less free space then needed is
rare.

Fixes #4110.