vinyl: allow to skip prepared statements in mem iterator

To implement read-confirmed and best-effort isolation levels, we need
to skip unconfirmed (aka prepared) statements in the mem iterator. To
achieve that, we add a new flag is_prepared_ok. Unless the flag is set,
the iterator will skip prepared statements even if they are visible from
the iterator read view. Upon skipping a statement, the iterator updates
min_skipped_plsn if the LSN of the skipped statement is less. We'll use
this LSN to update the transaction read view accordingly.

Needed for #5522

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