#42: feat(async): reconcile pool membership with topology changes

Asya Lomakinarequested to merge
42-pool into main

When discovery mode enabled, wire Pool reconcil membership as the topology tracker's on_refresh callback, so the pool's connections now follow the cluster instead of being decided once at connect() time.

With discovery disabled, tracking stays purely observational as before.

Closes #42 (closed)

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